So today, I do have something to say. Something that is not all about me, but, about other people. Other people who - lately - have been driving my nerves into the brick wall. Maybe even people who have been doing it long before "lately." But, today, it's not just people in general - today, it's people who think the world revolves around them. And as of recently, it seems like I've come across a lot that type of person - and it just makes me sick.
Within this category of drama seekers, there are two types. One that think that they are better than everyone else and one that think they are worse than everyone else. Both types constantly bitch and constantly complain and both types always claim they don't start/get involved with the drama when they are right in the middle of it. They always have something to say about everyone else - but when it comes to their own life, they won't do what is best for themselves.
For the ones who think that they are better than everyone else - you know what? More power to you. You aren't and you are gonna get yours one day. Trust me. Because you are not as smart as you think you are and you will make a mis-step.
But to the ones that think they are worse than everyone else - Well, you know what? Suck it the fuck up. The world ain't about you, honey! And it's not nearly as bad as you claim for it to be. You are the type of person that make your own life a thousand times worse than it already is because you are constantly playing the "pity me" card. To yourself and to everyone else. You refuse to see the good in anything, but instead, take the hundred little bad things and amplify them times a thousand instead of taking all of the little good things and making them count.
You feel worthless? It's because you think you are worthless. You think that you aren't good enough to do anything other than sit on your ass and feel sorry for yourself. Instead of focusing your attention on one good thing, you make yourself feel worse with all of the little bitty bad shit things that will not even matter tomorrow.
So you want a better life? Go get one. No, it's not easy. In fact, it is the hardest fucking thing that you will ever have to do - but until you try - you don't have the right to sit behind a fucking computer screen and bitch and complain and annoy the hell out of everyone that chooses to read it. Because, you know what? The fact that you are doing that? Means that eventually, all you are going to have is yourself. Because you won't go out and get anything or anyone else and those that you have, WILL leave you behind.
And before you go and get offended - don't even try. Because there are millions of people in this world that are worse than you. People that don't have homes or medical care or the chance to figure out why they literally cannot do anything for themselves. People that are paralyzed, or mentally incapable of making a decision that could save their life. Children who are too young to know that they shouldn't be beaten and raped, or kids that don't know another life other than this or not knowing when their next meal will come. Parents that have to sit around and watch as their kids kill themselves on drugs or have to watch as their grand-kids get treated like shit.
So before you sit there and sob for yourself, think about the millions of other people that are so much worse off than you - then think about how a lot of them have a much better attitude and much better drive than you. THEN, sit there and sob for yourself and just how pathetic you really are. And then, maybe you will decide to get off your sobbing ass and do something about your crumby life instead of trying to make other people feel bad for you. Because you know what? I don't. And I never will.
Within this category of drama seekers, there are two types. One that think that they are better than everyone else and one that think they are worse than everyone else. Both types constantly bitch and constantly complain and both types always claim they don't start/get involved with the drama when they are right in the middle of it. They always have something to say about everyone else - but when it comes to their own life, they won't do what is best for themselves.
For the ones who think that they are better than everyone else - you know what? More power to you. You aren't and you are gonna get yours one day. Trust me. Because you are not as smart as you think you are and you will make a mis-step.
But to the ones that think they are worse than everyone else - Well, you know what? Suck it the fuck up. The world ain't about you, honey! And it's not nearly as bad as you claim for it to be. You are the type of person that make your own life a thousand times worse than it already is because you are constantly playing the "pity me" card. To yourself and to everyone else. You refuse to see the good in anything, but instead, take the hundred little bad things and amplify them times a thousand instead of taking all of the little good things and making them count.
You feel worthless? It's because you think you are worthless. You think that you aren't good enough to do anything other than sit on your ass and feel sorry for yourself. Instead of focusing your attention on one good thing, you make yourself feel worse with all of the little bitty bad shit things that will not even matter tomorrow.
So you want a better life? Go get one. No, it's not easy. In fact, it is the hardest fucking thing that you will ever have to do - but until you try - you don't have the right to sit behind a fucking computer screen and bitch and complain and annoy the hell out of everyone that chooses to read it. Because, you know what? The fact that you are doing that? Means that eventually, all you are going to have is yourself. Because you won't go out and get anything or anyone else and those that you have, WILL leave you behind.
And before you go and get offended - don't even try. Because there are millions of people in this world that are worse than you. People that don't have homes or medical care or the chance to figure out why they literally cannot do anything for themselves. People that are paralyzed, or mentally incapable of making a decision that could save their life. Children who are too young to know that they shouldn't be beaten and raped, or kids that don't know another life other than this or not knowing when their next meal will come. Parents that have to sit around and watch as their kids kill themselves on drugs or have to watch as their grand-kids get treated like shit.
So before you sit there and sob for yourself, think about the millions of other people that are so much worse off than you - then think about how a lot of them have a much better attitude and much better drive than you. THEN, sit there and sob for yourself and just how pathetic you really are. And then, maybe you will decide to get off your sobbing ass and do something about your crumby life instead of trying to make other people feel bad for you. Because you know what? I don't. And I never will.
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